You are right on target...in my humble opinion...press on and don't stop until God gives you an answer that is clear and discernible by you.
A couple of resources...for your consideration...my daughter found these very helpful.
How to Listen When God Is Speaking: A Guide for Modern-Day Catholics [Paperback]
Publication Date: March 1, 2011
How do we listen to God speak to our hearts, minds, and wills--especially above the noise and stress of the modern world? What is the process of discerning God's will? Best-selling author and popular EWTN host Fr. Mitch Pacwa, SJ, tackles these and other questions in this comprehensive book on discernment. He says that first we need to believe in God and his moral laws and make a commitment to please him in all that we do. Then we need to pray so that we can experience the peace that can come only from God.
Fr. Pacwa draws from St. Ignatius' Spiritual Exercises, using plenty of everyday examples as well as stories from Scripture to help clarify his points. He encourages readers to develop a rich prayer life and says we can learn to listen to God's powerful voice and hear him speaking lovingly to us even when we are suffering in some way.
Confronts modern-day assumptions that can prevent us from being open to God's will for our lives.
Emphasizes the many ways we can develop our prayer life to nourish an authentic relationship with the Lord.
[quote]The Catholic Girl's Survival Guide for the Single Years: The Nuts and Bolts of Staying Sane and Happy While Waiting for Mr. Right
Emily Stimpson (Author)
Publication Date: January 23, 2012
Finding a spouse has never been easy. But, it’s also never been quite so hard, especially for good Catholic girls intent on having strong Catholic marriages to nice Catholic boys.
So what are all those good Catholic girls to do? How do they navigate the increasingly long (and usually trying) years between college and “I do” without losing their sanity or their soul?
Consult The Catholic Girl’s Survival Guide for the Single Years: The Nuts and Bolts of Staying Sane and Happy While Waiting for Mr. Right.
Steeped in the Church’s teachings on the feminine genius, marriage, and theology of the body, The Catholic Girl’s Survival Guide dishes with both wit and wisdom on some of the most pressing questions single women face: vocation, dating, sex, finances, work, depression, and more.
Catholic Answers Live
Single and Happy
Monday, Jan 16, 2012 - 6pm ET
Mary Beth Bonacci
First book: (Fr. Pacwa)...spiritual insight/guidance;
Second book: (Emily Stimson)...practical "nuts & bolts" of stuff you already know/do...but reinforces and gives confidence;
Third Q&A Radio: (Mary Beth Bonacci)...how to be at peace on the journey.
All for your consideration...in fellowship.