As young as I am I worry a lot about my future, and it involves my relationships. I have no interest in dealing with premarital intimacy, not now not ever, because I know it isn't always true love, which is what I pursue, and mainly because God exhorts us not to. The problem is that I can't seem to find anyone with these beliefs, not even the Christian community. I want to get married with someone I love and then have children, but I can't seem to find a man who would wait till marriage for this purpose.
I've been raised to ackowledge the importance of chastity, and I do, there's nothing I can do about that, but society is teaching men it's not "manly" to wait till marriage, and that really makes me wonder, am I ever going to find someone that shares my beliefs or will I have to be single forever in order to keep my strong promise?