No, I think you are putting too much weight on the issue of who has or who has not violated his conscience. There is no use in comparing ourselves to others.
Jesus makes no comment upon ‘conscience’ when He share His criteria for judging souls…remembering what He taught as vital to Christian life, to love God, to love others as self, and He isn’t talking about some amorphous warm feeling with regard to love, He speaks of action.
Matthew 25 verses 31-46
The Judgement of the Nations
‘When the Son of Man comes in his glory, and all the angels with him, then he will sit on the throne of his glory. All the nations will be gathered before him, and he will separate people one from another as a shepherd separates the sheep from the goats, and he will put the sheep at his right hand and the goats at the left. Then the king will say to those at his right hand, “Come, you that are blessed by my Father, inherit the kingdom prepared for you from the foundation of the world; for I was hungry and you gave me food, I was thirsty and you gave me something to drink, I was a stranger and you welcomed me, I was naked and you gave me clothing, I was sick and you took care of me, I was in prison and you visited me.” Then the righteous will answer him,** “Lord, when was it that we saw you hungry and gave you food, or thirsty and gave you something to drink? And when was it that we saw you a stranger and welcomed you, or naked and gave you clothing? And when was it that we saw you sick or in prison and visited you**?” And the king will answer them, “Truly I tell you, just as you did it to one of the least of these who are members of my family, you did it to me.” Then he will say to those at his left hand, “You that are accursed, depart from me into the eternal fire prepared for the devil and his angels; for I was hungry and you gave me no food, I was thirsty and you gave me nothing to drink, I was a stranger and you did not welcome me, naked and you did not give me clothing, sick and in prison and you did not visit me.” Then they also will answer, “Lord, when was it that we saw you hungry or thirsty or a stranger or naked or sick or in prison, and did not take care of you?” Then he will answer them, “Truly I tell you, just as you did not do it to one of the least of these, you did not do it to me.” And these will go away into eternal punishment, but the righteous into eternal life.’
God will judge us according to our practical kindness, not o in all the little ways we a kind to others as well as any greater ways. Jesus our Judge has said so.
Our sins against charity, against our conscience (which should be formed by love of God and love of others and just appreciation of the gift of our own lives and selves… remember Jesus said "love others as yourself. That implies that our love of self along with conscience formed with love and kindness at its root, informs us in how to rightly love others. It is this, He said, that is the criteria upon which He will judge us.
Our failures in love, charity, respect, service, we repent, we try to improve, trusting in God’s goodness and grace as we continue to try to live the commandments of love that Jesus taught us and requires of us. (Matthew 22:37-40)
And are we forgiven for our failures in love?
Look at Peter. He failed in charity, let Jesus down at the worst possible moment, deserted Him, lied, hid in fear. (John 18:15-27) As he had betrayed Jesus three times, so did Jesus ask three times if he loved Him, though he had failed in in love for Him. Repentant Peter said he did love Him. Note that Jesus still, after all that, entrusted to Peter the mission He had promised. Jesus forgiveness was complete. (John 21:17) Did Peter fail in love and faithfulness again and need again to obtain God’s forgiveness? Possibly. He was an impetuous man, a wonderful example both of human vulnerability and good-will. He knew God’s mercy. He would try again to be faithful, authentic, loving.
We hope in God’s mercy for this grace of God as we strive to overcome failures in love, and today, each day, try again to live in genuine practical kindness to others as we center our lives in love of Him, and each other in Him.
God grant you great trust and hope in His merciful love for you.