so my mom has this thing where she doesn’t like people coming to our house or knowing where we live because she thinks they’ll be jealous or what not. she also doesn’t relaly trust people because she thinks there are no real good friends and everyone is out to get you. a case of major paranoia
therefore, I can’t usually get a ride home from friends or anything because she gets mad and I can never invite people over either. she has very few acquaintances which she sometimes invites over but that’s about it
anyways, last week they were on vacation so I went to mass on my own and a lady at church offered me a ride home after. I tried to decline but she kept insisting and it got hard to say no after a while without telling this whole story so I just let her.
was it wrong for me to disobey my mom? I know about this rule and I know it is something she doesn’t like and she’ll be really mad if she ever finds out. but the truth is, I’m tired of living like this. I don’t be living in fear of people all the time and I want to be able to trust people. I already have trust issues and am trying to get over them. i’ts not all because of this but I think it does play a part.
would it be considered a sin though since I did something I know my parents wouldn’t like?