Wedding vows for 20 year marriage to finally be blessed


My husband of 20 years and I will be married in the Church in a small ceremony attended only by our 3 children. We will have Mass and I need to choose the readings. Amy suggestions?


It’s always a safe bet to talk with your pastor. He probably has a list you can use. If not, here’s a list:


At my wedding we went for Colossians 3:8-17 and John 13:34-35


Speaking for the USA, your parish will help you select for your Convalidation. This is more than a blessing, it is a Rite of Marriage :slight_smile:

This is the approved guide from the US Bishops:


This link is from 2011, pretty sure that was before the changes to the Rite of Marriage in the US.


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