When my wife and I went through marraige preparation, we told our priest that we were both open to having kids. At the time, we didn’t want them, but if God chose to bless us with one, then so be it.
My wife still doesn’t want a child. Now I’m sure that I do. She is on the pill for two reasons, birth control and to be “regular.” By going on natural family planning, we’d have no idea when the fertile time would be because her internal “clock” is all out of whack and she would see my suggestion to give up the pill as a backhanded way to getting her pregnant. She isn’t totally against it, just saying “not now.” We’re 31 and 32, so time is passing quickly.
Should I just keep praying and keep on her about it or drop it and let it happen via God’s will?