I’m 27 years old with a 4 year old son. My history is married highschool sweetheart out of highschool. Married 2 years and divorces. A few years later my son was born but I never married his father. I live with my boyfriend, and we own a home together. He is Catholic I am not. I have never been baptized, and neither was my ex husband. My current boyfriend has been married twice. Both marriages not Cahtolic, and married at Justice of the Peace. I started going through RCIA in September, and I just got the heartbreaking news yesterday that because of my cuurent way of living I cannot turn Catholic or get Baptized. It was so very important to me to do this for myself and my family. I cannot go back and change my living situation due to us woning the home together, and it’s not financilly possible for us to do that. I also do not want to move my son from his stabile environment. I feel like I’m being judged and not welcomed to better my future and my families future. I felt that doing this was in the right direction to what I felt was the right thing to do.
Please help me understand, and guide me in the right direction.