Wait, so you, before a ceremony in an anti-Catholic church, brought Communion from the Catholic church? And after the Baptism, you wanted them to leave whatever they were doing so you could give one of the children Communion.
Sorry, but this doesn’t sound so innocent. This sounds like a power struggle.
It sounds like everyone needs to sit down and decide what is happening in your children’s religious life. If you are taking Communion to the oldest, he has already been Baptized. So he shouldn’t have been baptized again. And you seem less concerned about your younger children being baptized into an anti-Catholic religion, than you are about someone not wanting you to introduce Communion (Catholic Communion) into a ceremony. Maybe its just me, but I couldn’t imagine taking Communion to someone at another church, especially an anti-Catholic church. :shrug:
Does your divorce decree have any information about which religion the children will be raised in?