Does God become upset with us when…
a. become defensive or dismissive of correction
What is preventing us from responding ideally? Some people hold grudges for years over petty things. Why? For those who think more logically, it can be difficult to understand why some humans take things so personally, react so emotionally or defensively, or commit sins that ultimately hurt no one but themselves? I do not understand why people beat themselves up over mistakes in the past?
Some mistakes and blind-spots seem way worse than others. Some forms of evil should be attacked more seriously than others. A petty comment can be overlooked. Some people choose to brood. I think gossip is uglier than fornication. Who are you to put your nose is someone’s else business? Live your life and let others live theirs. I do not think the world is that miserable of a place. I think most people are good enough people. Why does God want us to go above and beyond?
To be fair, all the controversial church issues are not directly from the bible. Which is worse a teenager mother give birth to a child she cannot care for or give her baby up for an adoption - foster care is not beautiful and many are unwilling to adopt? Versus aborting the fetus altogether.
Honestly, I think you can get through life without God. If God is so harsh on sin, yet we are human, prone to imperfections, errors, blind-sports?