I have also been pondering the same question. Our society is confused about the difference between being a man and being a male. I hear it all the time. One of the most common I hear from married guys is “Of course I look at other women, I’m a MAN!” That makes them a male. A man is committed to his wife, to the point where he has no interest in another woman. A male is interested in ogling as many women as he can in order to fulfill disordered sexual desires. The same goes with pornography usage. Real men do not look at pornography, nor do they masturbate.
A man knows when to turn the other cheek, and when it is time to defend himself and his loved ones. A man is willing to sacrifice everything for his family, even his own life.