God has not turned a deaf ear to you.
Perhaps this will make you feel better.
My first wife wanted to divorce me about 6 months after we married. Before the divorce was finalized she was already pregnant by one of her college students. This was a girl that went to mass every Sunday and was a full ride scholar in college.
After her I met a very nice girl that I latter found out the she had bipolar disorder. I found this out when I witnessed her first manic phase during our relationship. I am still very good friends with her but she has some things to accomplish in her life before she looks towards relationships.
My next girlfriend was what people commonly refer to as the “one for me.” About 3 months after I started dating her she became ill with what we thought was the flu. Two days later she was in a coma in the hospital, diagnosed with encephalitis. The lord took her home about three weeks later.
I have had a though time with my earthy relationships but it has only strengthened my relationship with God.
They say that the only hell a good Christian will know is here on Earth and the only heaven a disbeliever will know is here on Earth. In the end this is only temporal.
One day we will hear the words, “Good and faithful servant, I have reserved a place for you.” - this is eternal
So whenever you have a bit of bad luck remind yourself that it only lasts but a short while, and that better things are in your future.