Ever get that feeling when you first meet someone, you don’t know why, or what happened, they really didn’t do anything or say anything but you just want to pull back, kind of a “woah, I don’t want to be here” feeling.
That’s part of discernment, the unseen, the Holy Spirit is warning you, there is something there that you shouldn’t be a part of.
On the opposite end people use to say that when Mother Teresa would walk in the room everyone would be attracted to her, she and Saints like her had this unseen, unexplainable attraction to them. People wanted to be around them, to listen to them.
Or at least that’s how Mother Angelica explained it…