Ok, I’ve posted about my mom before when DH and I were moving and she went totally crazy about it: forums.catholic.com/showthread.php?t=165846
Our relationship since has been rocky, at best. Last time I was up in the area visiting my older sister and her hubby, I told my mom I would be over to visit at some point during my visit, most likely on Sunday. I drove up Friday afternoon, going shopping with my sister on Saturday and so I told her on Sunday was when I would most likely see her. Usually on Sunday I eat lunch with them, but since my sister had bought some special food for us while we were out shopping on Saturday, I ate lunch with her instead. I called my dad and told him that I would be over after lunch then for a couple hours before I had to drive back.
Well, that didn’t sit well with my mom obviously. :mad: She had my dad call me back and tell me, and this is a quote, “don’t come over until you are ready to spend some serious time with me.” So basically, my own mother didn’t want to see me :mad:
I’m so angry and saddened at the same time. She did this to my older sister as well when she moved out and tried to make her life miserable by cutting off all contact with her for YEARS! She has started talking to her again, but it’s now DH and I that are in the dog house, I guess:shrug:
Oh well, I guess if she doesn’t wanna talk to me for years that should be ok. I’m just sad for my younger siblings that still lives at home, especially my teenage younger sister who looks up to me. She was heart-broken when she didn’t talk to our older sister for years and now she might not be able to talk to me now either! :mad:
I guess I’m just looking for advice. I just wasn’t gonna talk to my mom until she talks to me…being that she basically said I wasn’t welcome in her house last time I was there. Also, would it be cruel for me NOT to buy something for her for mother’s day??? Some of my friends seem appalled I don’t want to get her something, but she has all but disowned me! This happened like a month ago and she hasn’t said a word to me since. Heck, she didn’t even have the guts to tell me not to come over herself, she had to have my dad do it (my dad is very weak-willed, so I knew the words came out of my mother, but she made my dad deliver the message).
If no advice, then please just pray for me and my family. God knows we need it! :(:mad: