I was curious if one is working with a vocations director and he is uncomfortable with that person for what ever reason, can he request a new one ?
I suspect the answer is no,
if that is the case.... how can one properly discern being uncomfortable with the vocations director ?
and shouldn't one be comfortable with ones vocational director, of course one has to ask well why are you uncomfortable,
i would merely say that if one were dating a person most do not continue dating a person when they are uncomfortable with that person, hoping things get better down the road.
and one can say well, you need to concentrate on what your V.D has to offer and is trying to teach....
but if there is no trust, and one is uncomfortable with that person... how does the person discerning continue ?
also what other problems has anyone else here faced in discernment that they may have not expected.
perhaps a woman in your life starts showing interest in you once your announcement becomes public, or a family member does not approve, how did you handle if at all... how did it effect your discernment if at all.
I would hope others would share, as there might be others facing the same thing and could use some insight.