I’m a shy guy,in my 20’s, not early 20’s… i have always been a very reserved person… i have a very hard time trusting my secrets to other people. When i was a child and a teenager, i used to share my secrets with my parents or siblings, and most of the time, they ended up telling other people about my secrets…That’s why i’m unable to trust my secrets to other people… At this moment, i’m very very sad, i don’t know what to do about the sin of lust. I’m very guilty of these type of sins. I always confess my sins to the priest, however, because of my shyness, i don’t have a close relationship with him… I wish there was a man in my life to talk about these issues, however, my dad lives in another country, and even if we lived in the same house, i couldn’t trust him these secrets, because i don’t think he would keep the secrets, and besides most likely he wouldn’t understand, he would get mad at me and that’s it… … i also have a brother… he’s a good brother, however, he has proven to be unable to keep secrets.
what should i do.
this sounds pathetic, but if you’re a man, older than 40 or 50 or 60 or 70 or 80 or 90, could you please be my friend? could you please listen to me? could you please give me advice? could you please help me to be a good catholic? if so, could i send you privates telling you about my problems?
thank you guys for your time
God bless you