I got into a relationship with a girl a few months ago. The more we got to know each other , the darker her “been feeling stressed out lately” attitude has been revealed. She is suffering from depression, refuses to get therapy, and has attempted suicide multiple times in her life. She has cut herself while we were dating behind my back when she said she was stressed about her bills, work, and past trauma.
She literally told me “I’m going to add you to the list of people that I will stay alive for and not kill myself”
Due to some disagreements on religious and moral issues, I’m feeling the need to break up with her because I don’t think it will work out. But at the same time her happiness is so dependent on me, that I believe if I break up with her, she might kill herself.
I’m not sure what to do. I tried the whole “You’ll find true happiness with Jesus” thing but she just kind of snarks at that. So I feel a conflict in between staying in a dysfunctional relationship…and moving on but putting someone else’s life and sanity at risk.