I have two sisters that are divorced and both are being harassed by their ex-husbands. I live in Florida and don't know if it is just Florida that has weak laws to protect women and children or if this is nation why, but I am angry.
I have written plenty on my one sister who has an ex who is a cop and he abuses the children physically and just yesterday he kidnapped his son again from the sister and again the law can do nothing. But I will not write about her, but I ask for prayers for her and her two children. Her situation is a mess.
I have another sister whose ex is really scaring me, moreso than my other sister's ex. This sister is just divorced one year. Her ex is the one who wanted the divorce for he found another woman, but when that woman left him and after the divorce, he decided he wanted his wife back. It was too late for my sister did not want him back. He is obsessed with her. He texts, calls and comes by her house many times. He upsets her so much that he cusses at her and he calls this love. He does all this to get her back, but is pushing her away for now she wants nothing to do with him and sees how unstable he really is. She has now found another man. The problem is that this man is not yet divorce. So her ex has used this against her and has tried to call me and has even approached my dad and told him. He is doing everything possible to make her life a living hell. The man she is seeing has a wife who is mentally unstable and crazy. She has told her ex to be careful of this woman and he goes right around and gives this woman my sister's cell phone number and house number. This woman calls my sister at least 10-20 times a day and leaves messages like, "You are stealing my husband, don't worry I will take care of your children." My sister is afraid for her kids and what this woman will do to them. She has called the police and told them of these calls and her threats. She has told them of her ex's many calls, texts, and visits and nothing can be done. They gave her a log to fill out of the calls, text and etc he and this crazy woman do so that she can if it becomes too many present it to a judge. She could at that time say they are harrassing her, but they are doing that now. What is wrong with the law?:shrug: My sister is crying everyday. She can't even enjoy her Christmas. I have emailed her ex and told him to back off and he has tried calling me twice, but unfortunately both times I was unable to accept the calls, otherwise I would have talked to him. I tried calling him back, but he won't accept my calls now.
My sister finally talked to his parents and told them of their son's weird, controlling, and obsessive behavior, but they are in denial. She even told him how he said to her and to my dad and to one other person that over his dead body that this man she is dating or any other man was going to father his sons. He said he had nothing to lose anymore. His parents didn't know what that meant. They asked my sister what that meant. They are in their late 80's and she did not want to hurt them anymore, so she just said that he is acting weird and is going to allow them to think about it and they will figure it out.
I am concerned for my sister's safety for this ex doesn't seem to care if he lives or dies and the law can't do anything unless he makes the first more. Well his first move could be the end of her life. Why do they have to wait for that? Anyone had an experience like this and what do you recommend? My sister doesn't know if she should go and buy a gun and learn how to use it. That is how afraid she is.
Please any advice. Yes, I know my sister is committing adultery and I have told her so. There is nothing I can do about that. She is not Catholic and only reads the Bible maybe about 5 minutes a day if that. I was so disappointed in her when I found out myself. We were brought up so different then this.:(