So briefly, my younger brother is graduating this May, his birthday is also in May as well as his, mine and my other brother’s Confirmation. So my parents decided that we are going to throw him a big party. Now my brother has a very diverse group of friends, friends who are black, mexican, asian, male, female, etc. We would also be inviting our youth group from church as well as their leaders and the priest.
Here is the dilemma, my grandfather has this really bad habit of insulting all of these different types of people. So my parents aren’t really sure whether to tell him about the party, not tell him and hope he doesn’t show up or what to do about the whole situation. Esp. in the light of the things he recently said to our faces about the Catholic Church (you don’t want to know).
So my question is, what would you do?