It’s a long story, but fast-forward to a couple of weeks ago. She had wanted to see me the next day, and even offered to pay for the plane tickets to fly me out there, but I declined, due to a host of reasons I’m not at liberty to discuss - let’s just say there’s a bit of history between me and her. I ended up talking to her - and her mom - for over an hour, basically telling her that I didn’t think she was ready for a relationship at the time and that I wanted to remain friends, so that when she thinks she’s ready, she can let me know.
I talked to her again 5 days later, during which time something happened, which put her in a better position to start a relationship, and she told me just as much. The conversation lasted over 2 hours, and we discussed some deep topics about relationships and such, but I still didn’t think she was completely ready, so I asked to give her another call 3 days later, to which she excitedly agreed. I got an email from her the next day, which she said she was going to send me, and she thanked me for sharing so much about myself. I posted something on her Facebook page the next day, in which perhaps I sounded more like a regular friend than anything else. I called her on the day on which I said I was going to call, but she didn’t pick up, so I left a message asking her to call me back. She never did.
I’ve since sent her an email and tried to contact her through Facebook. Nothing after almost 2 weeks. I’m just not sure what to make of it. I know that she’s not out of the country or ill or anything, because I’ve seen her online. If anyone could give me some insight as to what might be going on in her mind, it would be greatly appreciated. My guess is that she has made herself pretty clear that she’s looking for something more than friendship with me, but she doesn’t want to waste her time if all I’m looking for is friendship. The sign I’m waiting for is knowing for sure that she’s really ready for a relationship, before jumping into anything. Is it best for me to give her some space right now or should I try to step up and ask to pursue a relationship with her?
Thank you in advance!
P.S. Sorry I can’t really provide more information, because she reads these forums, too, and I want to respect her privacy.