let’s say you have an adult child who married outside the church, against your good upbringing. or one who got divorced and remarried without an annulment.
how would you practically treat the situation. do you refer to their person as their wife/husband? if they come to visit, would you give them separate sleeping quarters as if they weren’t married? would you stay at their house if they live together, even if they are just bf/gf?
I understand these are complicated situations. on the one hand,you don’t want to seem like you’re shunning thjem, on the other, you can’t condone certain things. I honestly have no idea what I would do in these situations, was just wondering how other good faithful catholics might approach things