I’ve been dating this guy for few months. As time goes by the frequency of communication has been slowing up. We used to speak or at least text each other every day and now he hasn’t called me for a few days which is really weird because he was always really good about calling me. The slowing down has been going on for a few weeks and I’m wondering if he’s just loosing interest. I sent him a text yesterday about some good news I got and didn’t receive a response yet. I wasn’t expecting anything but maybe a text back saying that was great. My gut is telling me something is wrong. I’m trying not to be clingy here. I’m not by nature but when people divert from their habits it always unsettles me. :eek: He did say at the begining of the week he would be busy but he didn’t say when we might get together again. :shrug: I know he has a lot going on these days but still it takes 2 minutes to send a text. Do you think I’m expecting too much??
I must add my dating experience has been limited and my relationships prior to this were not that great…guys turned abusive or just left. So maybe I’m overreacting. But I just like to know where I stand. :shrug: How could I ask him if he wants to cool things off or if he’s just busy. I don’t want to seem clingy. :rolleyes: If he’s rethinking things I’d rather just know.