You all were so helpful with my other questions, I’m hoping you can enlighten me as to why men are like this.:shrug:
My husband and I were talking last night and the topic of babies came up. Now, both of us are excited to be parents and recieve that wonderful blessing from God.
So you all understand I guess where I’m coming from and where my concern is coming from…I was born a couple months early, I was 1lb when I was born. God must have had a plan for me or I wouldnt be here still. (atleast that’s what i think) Now I’m 5’1 and 90lbs at 24yrs.:o
I’ve never been able to gain a significant amount of weight no matter how hard I tried…and still try.
I guess my concern is when I get pregnant how soon should I tell my husband…the only reason I ask is because im so tiny if I misscarry is it selfish to not want to tell my husband I was pregnant at all so if anything happens he doesnt go through the pain. He can’t change the outcome so why cause him pain?
Now his point is he doesnt care he wants to know as soon as I know even if the outcome isnt what we had planned it’s what God planned. He said it’s not like it would be my fault, it’s God’s plan and he has a plan for all of us. It’s just our choice to listen to Him or not.
On a side note - I did pick up the books and one other from the book store that you all suggested. So thankyou!