I have a question, just for FYI, I am not a parent so my answer might be different from those who are parents.
But, I have seen that here in the USA, we have a tendency when a child does something wrong, it is never there fault. They always blame the parents, the teachers, the school administrators, the community, but never the child. Don’t we need to as a society to tell the kid ( when I say kid, someone who is between 8-17, especially those above 14) hey you have some blame to. Maybe not 100% but to tell them hey jr you are to blame.
I say this bc I have heard of men as adults who kill, or rape little kids always say well I was hit as a little kid, or I was violated as a kid that that’s the cop out answer.
Is my rationale right?