Okay, so i've struggled lately as far as my vocation is concerned. Being a young man, I don't know where i'm really going or what i'm called to, though I do have my preferrences. However, even if I want to say get married, people tell me that just because I want it doesn't mean that God wants it. Anyway, why can't God just tell me what he wants from me?
I know he does tell us what to do in the sense of what's right and wrong and uses scripture to do this, but why can't he just talk to me in a clear voice and tell me what to do. If he can do it for some old man in the desert and tell him to free his people, or appear to some poor girl in Judea and make her the mother of God, why can't he just tell me what to do with my life as far as my vocation goes? I know its selfish, but all I need is just one clear sign or something to point me in the right direction, and yet I don't get anything. Do I just need to pray harder or something?