What are the options to have our own vows and still have the marriage considered as a sacrament by the Church? What options do you recommend for a ceremony?
If church teaches us that God’s love is eternal, why do we say vows that limit our love to someone else only “until death”? If God is love, how can any love end?
This is the vow we want to say (simply emitting words “until death do us part”)
I, (name), take you, (name), for my lawful wife, to have and to hold, from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health.