An Ex is using bible quotes justifing the threats he is using to hurt me.
I met my Ex the weekend of my highschool graduation in the late 80’s. He told me about the lord and read bible to me. I was raised in Islam, yet I did have christain relatives of various demonations. He was very intelligent on knowing the whole bible.
I left the marriage almost twenty years ago because of the physical, & emotional harm he was causing me; Beside being lock in the house (our front door was the kind where you can lock it from the inside as well as the outside, when the key is taken out, it was lock). Too many times I was told I couldn’t leave to visit my family or see my old friends who he thought weren’t very christain in his eyes.
For years I wondered if he was still in my hometown or still alive, sometimes I would google him to see. Curiorsity got the best of me. Well I had belong to a friends internet group site, and had photos of my new family (with my current knowledge of it). I didn’t use my real name, just something unique. My Ex found me and sent letters to me saying I was a whore for leaving him, copy & paste all my photos of my family, joined the various groups that I had belong to and told the groups with my photo paste that I was a bad mother and not very christain (I can’t use the words he use). When I found this out about the stealing of photos and groups. I was shock and canceled everything. But now I found out there’s a group form (on the friend’s site) deicated to me and wishing me dead, which is very hurtful to say the least.
He is very angry and scary. I’m just stump on how a person of “faith” can do these things. My Ex writes like I left him yesterday, and I’m a evil person. The bible quotes he uses saids it all. He uses alot of proverbs. I do not read the bible as much as I should, but I thought a person from Jesus would be a little kinder. Do a lot of people who think they been hurt can actually justify the actions since it’s in the bible? My Ex thinks he’s on a mission from god.
This person says I had no right to leave the marriage, since man is over is wife like god is over the church. It’s in the bible. There was a quite a few reasons why I left, but one was he talk of doing physical things to children & confided in me he was a flasher. I was lucky in this marriage we didn’t have children. My ex doesn’t remember any of this.
My question is: Is there alot of people who are christian or think they are and use the word of god to justify harming some?