I also recommend meditating and Praying on 1 Cor 7:25-40. Pay attention to this verse:
"I want you to be free from anxieties. The unmarried man is anxious about the things of the Lord, how to please the Lord. 33But the married man is anxious about worldly things, how to please his wife, 34and his interests are divided. And the unmarried or betrothed woman is anxious about the things of the Lord, how to be holy in body and spirit. But the married woman is anxious about worldly things, how to please her husband. 35I say this for your own benefit, not to lay any restraint upon you, but to promote good order and to secure your undivided devotion to the Lord. "
Here Paul says first and foremost ‘I want you to be free from all anxieties’. Imagine Jesus saying that to you here through Paul. God doesn’t want us to be anxious about our vocation or anything for that matter.
Next he says our most important calling in life is to be first focused on the Lord above anything else including marital concerns. For some of us that may mean living the single life would be better because we can more focus on him. Whereas we might become distracted otherwise. For others it may involve finding a good partner who can help them focus on the Lord, that is to be equally yoked. Ideally you would want a marriage partner who is going to help you get to heaven, not distract you from heaven. And if you do get married then you have to provide for a family such that material concerns become greater. Paul says that in their current distress he wanted them to be free from these concerns and focus on the Lord.
Who knows what the future will bring or even how long we will live. That is why our first concern is on the Lord.
Remember unmarried does not equal unloved or forgotten. God loves us more than anyone can. Ultimately, in heaven no one will be married except as the bride of Christ. And God is able to provide the people in our lives that we need.
“And he said to them, “Truly, I say to you, there is no one who has left house or wife or brothers or parents or children, for the sake of the kingdom of God, who will not receive many times more in this time, and in the age to come eternal life.”” (Luke 18:29-30)