[quote="coolduude, post:1, topic:185091"]
First, I want to say that I know several people have been affected by this and I don't mean to conjure anything bad up. So please try not to think that way.
Now, I know cheating is bad, but why?
I know the sacrament of marriage makes the two people one and God created us husband and wife, no third person. So cheating in a marriage is a big NO.
But what about in a relationship (boyfriend/girlfriend)? Why is it bad to cheat in a relationship? Again, I know it is bad, but why?
Go back a step. Why do you have a boyfriend/girlfriend? Until you are ready to be engaged and in a committed relationship leading to marriage, back off the drama and the commitment. You need to test the waters. Get out of the committed relationship and spend more time in non-physical relationships with lots of people of the opposite sex. I think a "desire" to "cheat" just means you are not ready to be in a committed relationship leading to marriage at this time. Because that is the purpose of commitment.