Hello all! My problem is this: My wife was diagnosed with bipolar when we were dating and put on medication. They tried different combos, some worked and some didn’t but when they worked it changed who she was and we didn’t like it. She lost her health insurance and had to come off the medication. I joined the military and we got married. The first three months of our marriage was a nightmare. She wasn’t on medication and would regularly push me to wits end where I would feel I couldn’t take it anymore. I regrettably would threaten divorce and she would often head to a hotel until she would call and apologize or I would call her back before she would waist the money on it. I have no problem being single and celibate for the rest of my life but I love my wife and prayed to hang in there until she got to her appointment for medication. When she was finally put on medication the type she was on was prefect. It was a blessing because it calmed her over the top outburst from nowhere yet didn’t change who she was. We have had a happy many months, but now she is pregnant. We are both thrilled and are greatly looking forward to being parents but the problem is her medication can cause birth defects so she had to come off while pregnant. It’s only been a few days and the nightmare has started to come back up. Today again I threatened to divorce her which I don’t really mean but at the time I feel like I mean it. I don’t know how I can handle this for 9 months. I try and remember her disorder, but you can only be pushed so much before you can’t take it and push back. I love her so much and wanted to have a big family with her but now it looks like we will have to use NFP to avoid future children because of her disorder. Not just for the sake of our marriage, but also for the sake of the child we have on the way now. It would be unfair to the child to have a mother with outburst and mood swings like this. I can’t image we are the first couple to come across this problem. I have been able to find little help on the internet and I was wondering if anyone out there has any ideas, suggestions, or information. Prayers for us would be a great help also. I don’t know what to do, I want to be a good husband, but I’m afraid of the next 9 months. Please help me!