I'd like to get some advice from everyone in here about something that has been bugging me lately.
First of all, we have 3 kids, aged 4, 3, and 18mos and we get along pretty well and have a lot to be thankful for in our family, however there is something that has been bothering me lately. My wife has a blackberry with the facebook app and seems like she spends a lot of time on it, either on facebook, sending text messages, or talking to her mom. She will get pretty defensive if I ask her to set it down for a little while or ask her to give it a break so I will usually reserve my comments about the blackberry when it seems like the kids really need her attention. She will "include" me by telling me the comments she saw or tell me who she is messaging, but many times I'm feeling left out. She is a great mom and wife so I don't want to give her an ultimatum or do anything extreme so I'd just like some suggestions on what I can do, if anything to help make this situation a little better. Is there anyone else out there in a similar situation? Thanks.