As many of you know, I am about to be married in about 4 months (see counter below). My fiance and I have been thinking about moving to Southern Maryland, which is where we are both from to be closer to our families. His parents are getting older and need help around the house, and we both love it down there.
My fiance was offered a very good job down there this morning. He has to go thru a background check, which he should pass, and when that’s done we are going to buy a house.
Here’s the thing. I would like to move out of my apartment as soon as possible. I don’t have much of a kitchen besides a sink, dorm fridge, toaster oven and microwave. It’s an attic apartment, very small, don’t have my own entrance, etc. On top of that the rent is high, and I’d rather put my money toward a lifetime investment, like a house.
If we get a house before the wedding, would it be acceptable to live together, if we lived as brother and sister? We are chaste now and are totally committed to remaining that way until our wedding day.
Has anyone else done this, or heard of anyone doing this before?