Well I actually have a couple of questions.
The first one is that I have been discerning a while on whether God is calling me to join a Secular Third Order (Discalced Carmelites) and I believe that is what He is calling me to do.
First of all…where do you find one? I’ve found links that led me to many websites with addresses and emails…do I just write them a letter or email and they tell me what to do?
How does this work? How long is the process?
Second question…If we needed to make it any harder…There is a very good chance that I will not be in the same state next year, and I can’t just fly out of state every month for a meeting…and I haven’t looked incredibly hard yet, but I’m afraid there won’t be any around me. Is that going to be a problem?
Third…I’m incredibly afraid of rejection, and I’m a bit afraid of rejection, especially since I’m MUCH younger than most people that tend to go into these things. People rarely take me seriously because I’m so young…so I mean…what happens if I do get rejected? Is that possible?